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Home of Anita M. Charlot
Relationship Expert, Author, Speaker and Facilitator

Why Anita?

Why should you allow me in your dating and relationship business?


I am a woman that has searched in ALL sorts of places, among all sorts of people, geographical locations, etc. looking for love only to find myself in the process - Thank GOD! In my quest to attract the love that I "thought I wanted," I have also confused and hurt a lot of people along the way. While I have helped thousands of people move into their truth, I have struggled with my own. I've been married and divorced and am a domestic abuse survivor. 

While I've coached many singles and couples, I am also the reason that others have sought therapy for the pain that I've caused them. I am by no means perfect...but I was willing to seek the necessary help to understand who I was, to "grow through" my past pain, not only for myself but for my children, my relationships and my clients/students as well. Your children learn their relationship behaviors by the example you show them and I didn't want my children to grow up "emotionally and relation-ally disfigured." In essence...I'm a walking, living, breathing case study that now understands relationship dynamics, first hand, and have made it my mission to assist other women (and those that love I've shared with you, I am proud to confess that I am currently engaged to the man that is "perfectly them) down the same path. 

I know what you're thinking, "So what! What does this have to do with why I should trust her?" Well, after everything -imperfect" for me and will soon be planning a wedding. Learning about who you are, your "shadow nature," and loving and accepting yourself unconditionally, 100% is key to you attracting the person that is "gets you" and loves you just the same.

If you are...
  • Tired of being single
  • Sick of hearing the same complaints from your ex's
  • Fed up with dating the "potential" in others
  • Ready to understand who YOU are, what makes you unique and how to attract the person that is "Perfectly Imperfect " for you...
Then you are in the right place!!!

What qualifies me you ask?

In addition to embarking upon my personal and spiritual development almost 20 years ago, the failure of several relationships, including my marriage, set me out on the quest to understand interpersonal relationships from the holistic, spiritual and now biblical perspective and determine how to attract, build and maintain healthy relationships to minimize the amount of pain and heartache.  It was during this time, I received my B.S. in Metaphysics - with a focus on interpersonal relationships.

When I asked spirit to work with me/through me to teach me first hand the sorts of things I would be dealing with as it related to my future clients interpersonal relationships, I had NO idea what that would mean. In the midst of many dating heartaches, marital and relationship failures, disappointments, life events, ups, downs and then more ups...again I experienced and endured quite a few things that most would shy away from. I have felt pain - to include physical abuse - just as many others have I have "grown through" it all.

I have stood before my clients - both personal and professional, workshops attendees, friends, family and lovers...naked in spirit having laid it all out on the line numerous times enough to know that in order to help someone "grow through" something, you must have "grown through" that "some-thing" yourself. I could not stand before you and give relationship advice or attempt to provide you with the tools to develop a healthy relationship unless I understood both ends of the spectrum. And trust me...I HAVE! 

Over the past two decades, I have coached thousands of men and women, via one to one, group workshops, tele-seminars, teleconferences, radio shows, online and in print and it has been the most rewarding thing I could have done as it has forced me to continue to grow everyday, not just for me...but for my clients as well. Opening the Relationship Architect™ Academy was the next logical step.

Virtual courses will take the form of teleseminars, webinars, as well as 6-week and 12-week programs. Due to Anita's schedule, she can only accept a small number of coaching clients per year. 

If you would like to work with Anita for individual or couple's coaching, please feel free to click on the "Contact" link to to inquire about her availability.